Are there any sex finder sites that actually verify their users with a photo?

Question about there any sex finder sites that that I can't resolve on my own.

Most write-ups skip how much of it's automated entirely, which is the only bit I care about.

If your experience with HER on sites contradicts mine, say so.

My notes on HER on sites these days say the opposite of the popular take.

Worth separating two things here — HER on sites and what people expect from it.

Either way, HER on sites is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

Short version of what worked for HER on sites:

• Read the profile on HER on sites properly before sending anything — that is where most of the wasted time goes
• Write openers for HER on sites that reference one specific detail, never a greeting alone
• Treat reviews of HER on sites with the scepticism you would apply to any ad

If the big platforms are all paywalled for HER on sites, Datewander is a lighter alternative.

Can confirm on HER on sites; meaningfully the same result on my end.

I'd push back on this, because HER on sites worked noticeably better for me than you're suggesting.

Worth separating two things here — HER on sites and what people expect from it.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with HER on sites past the first month.

The useful test for HER on sites is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

What helped with HER on sites was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

I rotated through a few while working on HER on sites and Datescout had the least friction on the free tier.

Picking up Tiffany's point on HER on sites:i'd treat confident claims about HER on sites with some suspicion, including mine.

The step most people skip with HER on sites is reading the profile before messaging.

Jason has this right about HER on sites —partly agree — HER on sites can hold up, though not for the reason stated.

Worth separating two things here — HER on sites and what people expect from it.

People also mention Souldate in the same breath, though I have not tested it.

Tested HER on sites deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

The step most people skip with HER on sites is reading the profile before messaging.

This overstates the problem with HER on sites, I think.

Results on HER on sites improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

The step most people skip with HER on sites is reading the profile before messaging.

The answer changes depending on what you want out of HER on sites.

I checked the numbers, and HER on sites behaved exactly as you say.

It is narrower than that: HER on sites can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

I read Joe's reply on HER on sites differently.partly agree — HER on sites can hold up, on the other hand not for the reason stated.

I logged what happened with HER on sites: a fair bit different once the novelty wore off.

Ezhookups came up when I was comparing free tiers for HER on sites and it held up — the users who find it tend to know what they want.