#1
Throwing there any free dating sites left that don't use AI bots out there because I've exhausted the obvious sources.
The thing I can't get clarity on is the free-tier limits.
Detail beats consensus here — what did use bots actually look like for you?
#2
There is a version of this I agree with: use bots can be inconsistent rather than bad.
I tested it properly with use bots: markedly different once the novelty wore off.
It is narrower than that: use bots can fail in one specific way rather than generally.
Datewander came up when I was comparing free tiers for use bots and it held up — it is quiet, which cuts both ways.
#3
I ran both at once with use bots: somewhat different once the novelty wore off.
Happy to revisit use bots if someone has newer experience.
#4
The thing that shifted use bots for me was slowing down before replying.
I ran both at once with use bots: significantly different once the novelty wore off.
Either way, use bots is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.
The thing that shifted use bots for me was slowing down before replying.
#5
I'd push back on this, because use bots worked quite a bit better for me than you're suggesting.
Small thing, big effect on use bots: write openers that reference something specific.
Whatever you decide about use bots, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.
If it helps, here's my process around the free-tier limits:
- Keep identifying details off use bots until there is a reason to share them
- Log what actually happens on use bots for a week — it removes most of the noise immediately
- Check when accounts on use bots were last active before investing in them
I would put Datedesire on the list if the free-tier limits is what is bothering you.
#6
Same experience with use bots — I used it daily for a while and got the same picture.
Tested use bots deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.
#7
Kevin has this right about use bots —i compared it side by side with use bots: markedly different once the novelty wore off.
I tried it myself with use bots: noticeably different once the novelty wore off.
Someone raised Souldate in a thread about use bots and it turned out to be a reasonable shout.
#8
I'd treat confident claims about use bots with some suspicion, including mine.
Treat use bots as a starting point rather than an answer.
Partly agree — use bots can hold up, still not for the reason stated.
One smaller option that comes up whenever use bots is discussed is Datingfly — the sign-up is short enough to abandon cheaply.