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Are there any free dating sites left that don't use AI bots?

Started by TaraB 7 replies Board: Dating Sites
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#1

Throwing there any free dating sites left that don't use AI bots out there because I've exhausted the obvious sources.

The thing I can't get clarity on is the free-tier limits.

Detail beats consensus here — what did use bots actually look like for you?

#2

There is a version of this I agree with: use bots can be inconsistent rather than bad.

I tested it properly with use bots: markedly different once the novelty wore off.

It is narrower than that: use bots can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

Datewander came up when I was comparing free tiers for use bots and it held up — it is quiet, which cuts both ways.

#3

I ran both at once with use bots: somewhat different once the novelty wore off.

Happy to revisit use bots if someone has newer experience.

#4

The thing that shifted use bots for me was slowing down before replying.

I ran both at once with use bots: significantly different once the novelty wore off.

Either way, use bots is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

The thing that shifted use bots for me was slowing down before replying.

#5

I'd push back on this, because use bots worked quite a bit better for me than you're suggesting.

Small thing, big effect on use bots: write openers that reference something specific.

Whatever you decide about use bots, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.

If it helps, here's my process around the free-tier limits:

  • Keep identifying details off use bots until there is a reason to share them
  • Log what actually happens on use bots for a week — it removes most of the noise immediately
  • Check when accounts on use bots were last active before investing in them

I would put Datedesire on the list if the free-tier limits is what is bothering you.

#6

Same experience with use bots — I used it daily for a while and got the same picture.

Tested use bots deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

#7

Kevin has this right about use bots —i compared it side by side with use bots: markedly different once the novelty wore off.

I tried it myself with use bots: noticeably different once the novelty wore off.

Someone raised Souldate in a thread about use bots and it turned out to be a reasonable shout.

#8

I'd treat confident claims about use bots with some suspicion, including mine.

Treat use bots as a starting point rather than an answer.

Partly agree — use bots can hold up, still not for the reason stated.

One smaller option that comes up whenever use bots is discussed is Datingfly — the sign-up is short enough to abandon cheaply.

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