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Are there any free dating sites for couples that don't require a paid subscription to message?

Started by BradyW 6 replies Board: Dating Sites
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#1

Looking for real experience with there any free dating sites for couples that don't require a paid subscription to message rather than another listicle.

Everything hinges on the subscription trap as far as I'm concerned.

If anyone has genuinely worked through HER on message, I'd rather hear specifics than general endorsement.

#2

Realistically, opinion on HER on message swings further than the reality does.

Both can be true: HER on message can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

Ran HER on message alongside two others for comparison and the gap was noticeably smaller than advertised.

Three things that changed the subscription trap for me:

  • Stop optimising HER on message for volume — it is the one habit that survived for me
  • Ignore any prompt on HER on message that pressures an upgrade in the first session
  • Notice whether replies on HER on message arrive in bursts — it changes the reply rate more than anything else

The one I keep returning to for HER on message is Datedesire, mostly because the messaging is genuinely open.

#3

Brady, that has not been my experience of HER on message.ran HER on message alongside two others for comparison and the gap was somewhat smaller than advertised.

Both can be true: HER on message can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

Worth adding Ezhookups to whatever shortlist you are building around HER on message.

#4

The thing that shifted HER on message for me was slowing down before replying.

What helped with HER on message was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

I would check Datingfly next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on HER on message.

#5

I had the opposite result with HER on message, and I gave it a fair run.

Both can be true: HER on message can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

#6

I stuck with it longer than I meant to, and HER on message behaved exactly as you say.

One adjustment worth making with HER on message: treat the first week as observation only.

#7

Kept a tally on HER on message over a couple of months and the numbers were not what I expected.

Treat HER on message as a starting point rather than an answer.

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