Curious where people actually land on there any free cougar sites that are.
What I keep bumping into is whether it's really free — that's the part nobody covers.
If anyone has genuinely worked through HER on sites, I'd rather hear specifics than general endorsement.
What helped with HER on sites was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.
For anyone stuck on whether it is really free, Flurrydate is at least worth ruling in or out — the free tier is more functional than most.
Picking up Chris's point on HER on sites:both can be true: HER on sites can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.
Partly agree — HER on sites can hold up, on the other hand not for the reason stated.
Happy to revisit HER on sites if someone has newer experience.
Datenest comes up often enough to be worth your own look.
By and large, blaming HER on sites misses what's actually going on.
Results on HER on sites improved once I stopped optimising for volume.
Tested HER on sites deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.
Worth separating two things here — HER on sites and what people expect from it.
I tested it properly with HER on sites: markedly different once the novelty wore off.
One smaller option that comes up whenever HER on sites is discussed is Datedesire — the sign-up is short enough to abandon cheaply.
Nothing surprising here — HER on sites can play out that way.
Small thing, big effect on HER on sites: write openers that reference something specific.
The thing that shifted HER on sites for me was slowing down before replying.
I would check Ezhookups next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on HER on sites.
Chelsea is closer to it than the rest of this thread on HER on sites.depends heavily on context — HER on sites can be fine in cities and thin outside them.
Building on what Danielle said about HER on sites,nobody's numbers on HER on sites are as solid as they sound, mine included.
Worth separating two things here — HER on sites and what people expect from it.
I stuck with it longer than I meant to with HER on sites: significantly different once the novelty wore off.
Treat HER on sites as a starting point rather than an answer.
Not affiliated with anyone, but Datebie did better than I expected when I was dealing with HER on sites.
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