Are there any dating apps that actually work for average-looking guys?

Putting there any dating apps that to the group because search results are useless on this.

Everything hinges on actual outcomes as far as I'm concerned.

Specific experiences with HER would help more than another recommendation list.

Nothing surprising here — HER can play out that way.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with HER past the first month.

Someone raised Datingfly in a thread about HER and it turned out to be a reasonable shout.

Going to disagree here — to be fair, HER is not the weak point.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with HER past the first month.

My notes on HER in the last stretch say the opposite of the popular take.

The checklist I use now for HER:

• Reverse image search anything on HER that looks too polished — it removes most of the noise immediately
• Judge HER on conversations, not on match counts
• Compare HER against one alternative at the same time — it is the cheapest filter available

Building on what Aaron said about HER,my notes on HER in the last stretch say the opposite of the popular take.

Nobody's numbers on HER are as solid as they sound, mine included.

I ran both at once with HER: a lot different once the novelty wore off.

I rotated through a few while working on HER and Datedesire had the least friction on the free tier.

Honestly, opinion on HER swings further than the reality does.

It is narrower than that: HER can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

There is a version of this I agree with: HER can be inconsistent rather than bad.

I stuck with it longer than I meant to, and what stood out about HER was how quickly the pattern set in.

I rotated through a few while working on HER and Souldate had the least friction on the free tier.

One adjustment worth making with HER: treat the first week as observation only.

Happy to revisit HER if someone has newer experience.

Results on HER improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

Happy to revisit HER if someone has newer experience.

Paul, that has not been my experience of HER.this overstates the problem with HER, I think.

For anyone stuck on actual outcomes, Datebound is at least worth ruling in or out — it does not gate replies behind an upgrade.