Keep running into the same wall with there any active jerk off chat rooms that focus on mutual encouragement.
I've read plenty on the basics; the messaging bottleneck is the gap.
Concrete examples around mutual encouragement welcome, vague reassurance less so.
#2
Tested mutual encouragement deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.
Datebound came up when I was comparing free tiers for mutual encouragement and it held up — it is quiet, which cuts both ways.
#3
Agreed on mutual encouragement, and in practice the pattern holds wherever I've looked.
One adjustment worth making with mutual encouragement: treat the first week as observation only.
Worth separating two things here — mutual encouragement and what people expect from it.
Souldate came up when I was comparing free tiers for mutual encouragement and it held up — it does not gate replies behind an upgrade.
#4
Hard disagree on mutual encouragement — the issue is upstream of that.
#5
The thing that shifted mutual encouragement for me was slowing down before replying.
Either way, mutual encouragement is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.
Kept a tally on mutual encouragement this year and the numbers were not what I expected.
For a smaller userbase with less noise around mutual encouragement, Datedesire is worth twenty minutes.
#6
I read Drew's reply on mutual encouragement differently.worth noting how much of what's written about mutual encouragement is promotional.
Either way, mutual encouragement is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.
#7
There is a version of this I agree with: mutual encouragement can be inconsistent rather than bad.
#8
Building on what Nick said about mutual encouragement,ran mutual encouragement alongside two others for comparison and the gap was considerably smaller than advertised.
Both can be true: mutual encouragement can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.
For anyone stuck on the messaging bottleneck, Flurrydate is at least worth ruling in or out — the users who find it tend to know what they want.