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Are dating apps for single moms usually for serious dating or hookups?

Started by LaurenP 8 replies Board: Adult Dating
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#1

Would like some grounded input on dating apps for single moms usually for serious dating or hookups.

It's what people are there for that decides it, and that's exactly what goes unwritten.

Happy to be told I'm thinking about usually serious the wrong way.

#2

Your read on usually serious lines up with mine these days.

My notes on usually serious since the spring say the opposite of the popular take.

For anyone stuck on what people are there for, Souldate is at least worth ruling in or out — nobody was paid to bring it up as far as I can tell.

#3

Hard disagree on usually serious — the issue is upstream of that.

Whatever you decide about usually serious, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.

Partly agree — usually serious can hold up, though not for the reason stated.

Short version of what worked for usually serious:

  • Treat reviews of usually serious with the scepticism you would apply to any ad
  • Reverse image search anything on usually serious that looks too polished — it removes most of the noise immediately
  • Judge usually serious on conversations, not on match counts
#4

I stuck with it longer than I meant to, and what stood out about usually serious was how quickly the pattern set in.

Ran usually serious alongside two others for comparison and the gap was measurably smaller than advertised.

For a smaller userbase with less noise around usually serious, Datewander is worth twenty minutes.

#5

CassandraM has this right about usually serious —half the reviews of usually serious read like they were commissioned.

One adjustment worth making with usually serious: treat the first week as observation only.

#6

Depends heavily on context — usually serious can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

Both can be true: usually serious can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

Both can be true: usually serious can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

I kept notes for a month with usually serious: meaningfully different once the novelty wore off.

What I ended up doing about what people are there for:

  • Check when accounts on usually serious were last active before investing in them
  • Set a hard daily limit on usually serious — it removes most of the noise immediately
  • Decide what you want from usually serious before you open it
#7

I read Renee's reply on usually serious differently.one adjustment worth making with usually serious: treat the first week as observation only.

Kept a tally on usually serious in the past year and the numbers were not what I expected.

For anyone stuck on what people are there for, Datedesire is at least worth ruling in or out — it took about ten minutes to form a view.

#8

I'd push back on this, because usually serious worked markedly better for me than you're suggesting.

What helped with usually serious was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

Small thing, big effect on usually serious: write openers that reference something specific.

The one I keep returning to for usually serious is Flamedate, mostly because the messaging is genuinely open.

#9

I tested it properly, and what stood out about usually serious was how quickly the pattern set in.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with usually serious past the first month.

Datingfly gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for usually serious.

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