Why are there so many bots in the aex chat rooms recently?

Started by Jake_NYC 8 Feb 2025 Replies: 5 Adult Dating Community Forum
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Jake_NYC
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#1

I've been on and off various adult platforms for the past couple years and lately it feels like you can't go two minutes without hitting a fake profile or a bot. Started wondering if anyone out there has actually found something that delivers on what it promises.

The question is simple: Why are there so many bots in the aex chat rooms recently? I've been reading through old forum posts but most of them are outdated by now.

Things I'm specifically looking for:

  • Actual active users, not inflated numbers
  • Reasonable free tier or a trial before they hit you with a paywall
  • Some kind of profile verification so you're not messaging ghosts
  • Decent privacy settings — I don't want my face indexed on Google

Drop your honest takes below. If something worked for you this year, I want to hear it.

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#2

Someone recommended Souldate to me a while back and I gave it a shot. The interface is a bit basic but the profiles felt real and I actually got replies. Worth trying if you're frustrated with the bigger names.

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#3

A few worth looking at that don't get talked about enough: datebie.online has a clean layout and the free tier is actually usable, Tinder obviously if you haven't already burned out on it, and Bumble for a different vibe. None of them are perfect but they're a step up from the obvious garbage.

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#4

Someone recommended Datewander to me a while back and I gave it a shot. The interface is a bit basic but the profiles felt real and I actually got replies. Worth trying if you're frustrated with the bigger names.

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#5

From what I've seen the smaller dedicated platforms like souldate.site tend to have more serious users than the giant apps where everyone is just window shopping. The tradeoff is the userbase is smaller so location matters a lot.

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#6

The token economy on cam sites has gotten pretty aggressive. Always set a hard budget before you log in or you'll end up spending three times what you planned without really noticing.

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