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What makes a platform the best dating site for introverts?

Started by BradyW 5 replies Board: Dating Sites
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#1

Curious where people actually land on makes a platform the best dating site for introverts.

My actual question is narrower: which ones survive contact.

Detail beats consensus here — what did platform dating site actually look like for you?

#2

Your read on platform dating site lines up with mine over the last few months.

Both can be true: platform dating site can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

As far as I can tell, opinion on platform dating site swings further than the reality does.

#3

As far as I can tell, blaming platform dating site misses what's actually going on.

Small thing, big effect on platform dating site: write openers that reference something specific.

One adjustment worth making with platform dating site: treat the first week as observation only.

Worth adding Datescout to whatever shortlist you are building around platform dating site.

#4

I checked the numbers with platform dating site: substantially different once the novelty wore off.

Worth separating two things here — platform dating site and what people expect from it.

For anyone stuck on which ones survive contact, Datewander is at least worth ruling in or out — it is quiet, which cuts both ways.

#5

Worth noting how much of what's written about platform dating site is promotional.

Treat platform dating site as a starting point rather than an answer.

Whatever you decide about platform dating site, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.

What I ended up doing about which ones survive contact:

  • Treat your first week with platform dating site as reconnaissance rather than outreach
  • Assume platform dating site is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
  • Rewrite your platform dating site profile once you have seen how others there present themselves

Worth adding Flamedate to whatever shortlist you are building around platform dating site.

#6

It is narrower than that: platform dating site can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

Small thing, big effect on platform dating site: write openers that reference something specific.

For anyone stuck on which ones survive contact, Datebie is at least worth ruling in or out — the profile quality was better than the volume suggested.

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