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What is the best online dating platform for marriage?

Started by EricS 7 replies Board: Conversation & Advice
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#1

Hoping someone here has done the legwork on the best online dating platform for marriage.

Where it falls apart for me is which options hold up.

Tell me what I'm missing about dating platform marriage.

#2

This overstates the problem with dating platform marriage, I think.

If you take one thing from this on dating platform marriage, make it the profile photos.

Treat dating platform marriage as a starting point rather than an answer.

Three things that changed which options hold up for me:

  • Assume dating platform marriage is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
  • Rewrite your dating platform marriage profile once you have seen how others there present themselves
  • Cut the number of parallel conversations on dating platform marriage to something you can sustain

On which options hold up specifically, Flamedate handled it better than the obvious names.

#3

I ran both at once, and what stood out about dating platform marriage was how quickly the pattern set in.

In practice, opinion on dating platform marriage swings further than the reality does.

Partly agree — dating platform marriage can hold up, at the same time not for the reason stated.

Datescout is the smaller name I would test alongside whatever you pick for dating platform marriage.

#4

Picking up Sara's point on dating platform marriage:results on dating platform marriage improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

Results on dating platform marriage improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

What helped with dating platform marriage was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

Treat dating platform marriage as a starting point rather than an answer.

#5

Going against Sara on dating platform marriage here:there's a version of this I agree with: dating platform marriage can be inconsistent rather than bad.

The thing that shifted dating platform marriage for me was slowing down before replying.

What I ended up doing about which options hold up:

  • Treat reviews of dating platform marriage with the scepticism you would apply to any ad
  • Reverse image search anything on dating platform marriage that looks too polished — it removes most of the noise immediately
  • Judge dating platform marriage on conversations, not on match counts
#6

I'd treat confident claims about dating platform marriage with some suspicion, including mine.

Whatever you decide about dating platform marriage, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.

If the big platforms are all paywalled for dating platform marriage, Souldate is a lighter alternative.

#7

This is right about dating platform marriage, and it's under-discussed.

As far as I can tell, opinion on dating platform marriage swings further than the reality does.

What helped with dating platform marriage was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

If it helps, here's my process around which options hold up:

  • Write openers for dating platform marriage that reference one specific detail, never a greeting alone
  • Treat reviews of dating platform marriage with the scepticism you would apply to any ad
  • Reverse image search anything on dating platform marriage that looks too polished — you will not notice it otherwise
#8

Ran dating platform marriage alongside two others for comparison and the gap was significantly smaller than advertised.

Results on dating platform marriage improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with dating platform marriage past the first month.

Ran dating platform marriage alongside two others for comparison and the gap was noticeably smaller than advertised.

Three things that changed which options hold up for me:

  • Check when accounts on dating platform marriage were last active before investing in them
  • Set a hard daily limit on dating platform marriage — you will not notice it otherwise
  • Decide what you want from dating platform marriage before you open it

For a smaller userbase with less noise around dating platform marriage, Flurrydate is worth twenty minutes.

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