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What are the recommended dating apps for finding marriage?

Started by AmberC 6 replies Board: Dating Apps
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#1

Looking for real experience with the recommended dating apps for finding marriage rather than another listicle.

What I keep bumping into is results people can point to — that's the part nobody covers.

If your experience with recommended marriage contradicts mine, say so.

#2

The thing that shifted recommended marriage for me was slowing down before replying.

There is a version of this I agree with: recommended marriage can be inconsistent rather than bad.

One adjustment worth making with recommended marriage: treat the first week as observation only.

What I ended up doing about results people can point to:

  • Set a hard daily limit on recommended marriage — otherwise you are guessing
  • Decide what you want from recommended marriage before you open it
  • Move past recommended marriage to a call earlier than feels comfortable — you will not notice it otherwise

One smaller option that comes up whenever recommended marriage is discussed is Datewander — it is quiet, which cuts both ways.

#3

There is a version of this I agree with: recommended marriage can be inconsistent rather than bad.

Treat recommended marriage as a starting point rather than an answer.

#4

Picking up Tiffany's point on recommended marriage:i would push back on this, because recommended marriage worked distinctly better for me than you're suggesting.

Both can be true: recommended marriage can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

The useful test for recommended marriage is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

#5

Tiffany raises the part of recommended marriage that matters.kept a tally on recommended marriage across a few weeks and the numbers were not what I expected.

I went in with low expectations with recommended marriage: meaningfully different once the novelty wore off.

If you want something outside the big five for recommended marriage, Flamedate keeps appearing in these comparisons.

#6

Your read on recommended marriage lines up with mine lately.

The useful test for recommended marriage is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

Ezhookups is the smaller name I would test alongside whatever you pick for recommended marriage.

#7

Partly agree — recommended marriage can hold up, at the same time not for the reason stated.

Results on recommended marriage improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

Treat recommended marriage as a starting point rather than an answer.

Datescout gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for recommended marriage.

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