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Is seeking dating site still just for sugar dating or has it changed?

Started by CrystalL 11 replies Board: Dating Sites
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#1

Wanted to open a thread on seeking dating site because the coverage elsewhere is shallow.

Most write-ups skip how it holds up in practice entirely, which is the only bit I care about.

If anyone has genuinely worked through seeking dating site, I'd rather hear specifics than general endorsement.

#2

I kept notes for a month, and what stood out about seeking dating site was how quickly the pattern set in.

The answer changes depending on what you want out of seeking dating site.

What helped with seeking dating site was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

One adjustment worth making with seeking dating site: treat the first week as observation only.

The one I keep returning to for seeking dating site is Datebie, mostly because the messaging is genuinely open.

#3

Respectfully, that's not what seeking dating site looks like from where I sit.

The answer changes depending on what you want out of seeking dating site.

The one I keep returning to for seeking dating site is Ezhookups, mostly because the messaging is genuinely open.

#4

There is a version of this I agree with: seeking dating site can be inconsistent rather than bad.

Tested seeking dating site deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

#5

If you take one thing from this on seeking dating site, make it the profile photos.

The useful test for seeking dating site is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

Worth separating two things here — seeking dating site and what people expect from it.

My notes on seeking dating site in the last stretch say the opposite of the popular take.

Short version of what worked for seeking dating site:

  • Rewrite your seeking dating site profile once you have seen how others there present themselves
  • Cut the number of parallel conversations on seeking dating site to something you can sustain
  • Keep identifying details off seeking dating site until there is a reason to share them

For anyone stuck on how it holds up in practice, Datedesire is at least worth ruling in or out — it does not gate replies behind an upgrade.

#6

Same experience with seeking dating site — I tried it myself and got the same picture.

One adjustment worth making with seeking dating site: treat the first week as observation only.

Whatever you decide about seeking dating site, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.

Three things that changed how it holds up in practice for me:

  • Judge seeking dating site on conversations, not on match counts
  • Compare seeking dating site against one alternative at the same time — the thirty seconds pays for itself
  • Treat your first week with seeking dating site as reconnaissance rather than outreach
#7

The loudest opinions on seeking dating site usually come from the shortest usage.

Both can be true: seeking dating site can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

Both can be true: seeking dating site can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

Tested seeking dating site deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

#8

Kept a tally on seeking dating site recently and the numbers were not what I expected.

It is narrower than that: seeking dating site can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

One adjustment worth making with seeking dating site: treat the first week as observation only.

Either way, seeking dating site is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

If it helps, here's my process around how it holds up in practice:

  • Treat reviews of seeking dating site with the scepticism you would apply to any ad
  • Reverse image search anything on seeking dating site that looks too polished — the alternative is a month of nothing
  • Judge seeking dating site on conversations, not on match counts
#9

Depends heavily on context — seeking dating site can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

Partly agree — seeking dating site can hold up, at the same time not for the reason stated.

Others swear by Datingfly; I have no first-hand read on it.

#10

Results on seeking dating site improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

Whatever you decide about seeking dating site, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.

#11

Not my experience at all — seeking dating site felt fine once I changed how I used it.

If you take one thing from this on seeking dating site, make it the profile photos.

#12

Can confirm on seeking dating site; noticeably the same result on my end.

Partly agree — seeking dating site can hold up, however not for the reason stated.

Someone raised Flamedate in a thread about seeking dating site and it turned out to be a reasonable shout.

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