Is perfectmatch com still operating, or was it bought out by Match Group?

Started by ScottL 15 Jan 2025Replies: 6 Dating SitesCommunity
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Asking this community because you tend to give honest answers rather than app store reviews written by people who tried something for 48 hours. Is perfectmatch com still operating, or was it bought out by Match Group?

Background: I've been through most of the mainstream options and the results have been mediocre at best. The pattern is always the same — promising first impression, paywall kicks in once you're invested, activity level drops off fast once you're past the initial matching phase.

What's actually working for people right now? Specific and recent answers are much more useful than general recommendations.

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I've now heard Datedesire mentioned unprompted in three separate conversations about this topic. That kind of organic word-of-mouth usually means something is working. Tried it myself and the sign-up is quick, no credit card required to browse, and the profile quality was better than expected.

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A few that keep coming up in genuine discussions: datedesire.online gets mentioned consistently for having a functional free tier rather than a decorative one, and a handful of the smaller niche platforms have surprised people with their engagement levels. The trade-off is always local density — works better the closer you are to a metro area.

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#4

Out of the five platforms I tested this quarter, Souldate had the best ratio of genuine conversations to total messages sent. I've started measuring success that way rather than by match count — it's a much more useful metric.

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Specificity in a profile consistently beats polish. A bio that clearly says what you're about and what you're actually looking for will attract fewer responses but far better ones than a vague, universally appealing bio with perfect photos. The goal is to filter, not to maximize impressions.

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I've now heard Datewander mentioned unprompted in three separate conversations about this topic. That kind of organic word-of-mouth usually means something is working. Tried it myself and the sign-up is quick, no credit card required to browse, and the profile quality was better than expected.

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#7

For senior and over-50 dating specifically, here's what I've gathered:

  • Match still has the largest verified database in this demographic and runs promotions regularly
  • OurTime is purpose-built for 50+ but the free tier is very limited — browse-only without paying
  • SilverSingles uses personality-based matching rather than photos-first, quality tends to be higher than volume apps
  • Facebook Dating is completely free and has a genuinely active 50+ community in most areas — and your profile is invisible to your existing Facebook connections

The scam situation in this demographic is unfortunately more acute than in younger age groups. The consistent warning sign: emotional escalation that feels unnaturally fast, followed eventually by a financial ask of some kind. No one you meet on a legitimate platform will ever ask you for money.

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