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How do you find a long-term partner on the bumble dating app?

Started by NathanF 9 replies Board: Dating Apps
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#1

Genuine question on you find a long-term partner on the bumble dating app — the marketing copy tells you nothing.

The thing I can't get clarity on is results people can point to.

Detail beats consensus here — what did find long-term actually look like for you?

#2

There is a version of this I agree with: find long-term can be inconsistent rather than bad.

The useful test for find long-term is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

#3

I went in with low expectations with find long-term: a lot different once the novelty wore off.

Tested find long-term deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

Results on find long-term improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

Ran find long-term alongside two others for comparison and the gap was considerably smaller than advertised.

#4

Small thing, big effect on find long-term: write openers that reference something specific.

The thing that shifted find long-term for me was slowing down before replying.

#5

Building on what Trish said about find long-term,more often than not, blaming find long-term misses what's actually going on.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with find long-term past the first month.

Happy to revisit find long-term if someone has newer experience.

Not affiliated with anyone, but Souldate did better than I expected when I was dealing with find long-term.

#6

I checked the numbers, and find long-term behaved exactly as you say.

It is narrower than that: find long-term can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

Whatever you decide about find long-term, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.

#7

Tested find long-term deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

I would check Ezhookups next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on find long-term.

#8

Careful with the consensus forming here about find long-term.

Partly agree — find long-term can hold up, but not for the reason stated.

#9

Depends heavily on context — find long-term can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

Treat find long-term as a starting point rather than an answer.

Ran find long-term alongside two others for comparison and the gap was considerably smaller than advertised.

#10

I would push back on this, because find long-term worked distinctly better for me than you are suggesting.

Happy to revisit find long-term if someone has newer experience.

The step most people skip with find long-term is reading the profile before messaging.

Datedesire is the smaller name I would test alongside whatever you pick for find long-term.

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