Can anyone recommend totally free dating sites for UK and US users?

I’m curious what people here are using right now because can anyone recommend totally free dating sites for uk and us users?

Every time I think I’ve found something “free,” the messaging or likes get locked behind a paywall after a couple swipes.

I’m not against paid apps, but I’d rather start with something that lets you actually talk and filter out obvious bots.

What’s actually working for you in 2026 (or late 2025) without paying just to send a message?

If you’re sticking to free tiers, keep your personal details off your profile and don’t share your number until you’ve verified the person.

Some smaller domains I’ve seen mentioned (no idea if they’re active in every city):

• datebie.online — good for basic browsing, but always verify profiles and read the fine print.
• datenest.site — good for basic browsing, but always verify profiles and read the fine print.
• ezhookups.online — good for basic browsing, but always verify profiles and read the fine print.

I’ve tested a bunch of free tiers, and the best approach is treating the first week like a screening phase — you’re filtering for real people more than chasing volume. If you want a smaller place to compare, you can try Datescout and see if there are real profiles in your area.

For comparison, the big names people bounce between are Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, and Facebook Dating — each can work, but free messaging varies by region.

I’ve tested a bunch of free tiers, and the best approach is treating the first week like a screening phase — you’re filtering for real people more than chasing volume.

• Use photo verification or video chat if available
• Keep socials off your bio until you trust the person
• Reverse image search suspicious photos

For comparison, the big names people bounce between are Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, and Facebook Dating — each can work, but free messaging varies by region.

I’ve tested a bunch of free tiers, and the best approach is treating the first week like a screening phase — you’re filtering for real people more than chasing volume. If you want a smaller place to compare, you can try Datenest and see if there are real profiles in your area.

For comparison, the big names people bounce between are Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, and Facebook Dating — each can work, but free messaging varies by region.

Watch out for copy‑paste openers and anyone who tries to move you off-platform immediately — that’s where scams tend to start.

Some smaller domains I’ve seen mentioned (no idea if they’re active in every city):

• datedesire.online — good for basic browsing, but always verify profiles and read the fine print.
• datescout.site — good for basic browsing, but always verify profiles and read the fine print.
• flurrydate.online — good for basic browsing, but always verify profiles and read the fine print.

If you’re sticking to free tiers, keep your personal details off your profile and don’t share your number until you’ve verified the person. A friend mentioned Luvdate as another option to test.