#1
Genuine question on there any dating apps with incognito mode so I can browse without being seen — the marketing copy tells you nothing.
It's what regular users report that decides it, and that's exactly what goes unwritten.
Anyone who has actually tested HER — what did you find?
#2
My notes on HER lately say the opposite of the popular take.
Tested HER deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.
I would check Datebound next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on HER.
#3
Going to disagree here — in practice, HER isn't the weak point.
Worth separating two things here — HER and what people expect from it.
I gave it a fair run with HER: measurably different once the novelty wore off.
One smaller option that comes up whenever HER is discussed is Datingfly — the users who find it tend to know what they want.
#4
Depends heavily on context — HER can be fine in cities and thin outside them.
Results on HER improved once I stopped optimising for volume.
Datelink is the smaller name I would test alongside whatever you pick for HER.
#5
One adjustment worth making with HER: treat the first week as observation only.
#6
Agreed on HER, and in my experience the pattern holds wherever I've looked.
My notes on HER across a few weeks say the opposite of the popular take.
If it helps, here's my process around what regular users report:
- Treat reviews of HER with the scepticism you would apply to any ad
- Reverse image search anything on HER that looks too polished — it is the cheapest filter available
- Judge HER on conversations, not on match counts
Flamedate gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for HER.
#7
Half the reviews of HER read like they were commissioned.
Either way, HER is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.
For a smaller userbase with less noise around HER, Datedesire is worth twenty minutes.